Never Give Up
Discouragement is a common problem in the world of writing for publication. You get a great idea for a book, but when you tell your family and friends about it, they’re not as enthusiastic as you’d hoped. You start working on it anyway, but you keep running into problems like distractions, writers’ block, a too-busy schedule, learning curves, needing to research, or just “life happens.” You finally get enough written to join a critique group, but you can’t find other writers who are at about your level and stage who are available when you are. You decide to hire an editor only to find out how expensive professional editing is. You want to attend a writers’ conference, but they’re costly too. When you finally get the money to go, an agent or acquisitions editor tells you there’s no market for what you’ve poured your heart and soul into. You’re told you should write articles or other short pieces instead. So you do that—only to receive one rejection after another. And if you do finally get a book contract, your “Hallelujah!” is short-lived because you soon find out you have to spend a bunch of your time and a considerable amount of money promoting and marketing that book. And in spite of all your efforts, it doesn’t sell nearly as well as you thought. Matter of fact, if you’d known how much work writing a book was, and how dismal the tangible rewards were going to be, you probably wouldn’t have started in the first place. You may even question why God called you to do this at all!
At any point in the process of writing for publication, discouragement can make you want to give up. Might as well try something easier, like maybe rocket science.
But let me ask you one question. How long have you been trying? I’ll bet you haven’t been working at this since, say, 1908.
As you’ve probably heard, 1908 was the last time the Chicago Cubs baseball team won the World Series. Until November 2, 2016!
I was born and raised in Illinois, so I’ve been a die-hard Cubs fan my entire life. Moving to Minnesota for high school and to California as an adult did not affect my loyalty. I raised my sons to love the Cubbies too. I took them to as many Dodgers and Padres games as I could when those California teams were playing the Cubs.
Of course, Cubbies fans have always been considered hopeless optimists. Someone once told me that if you marry a Cubs fan, he’ll be faithful to you no matter what. You don’t even have to do be nice to him … just occasionally act like you might someday.
In 1989, when Back to the Future Part II came out, the Chicago Cubs had not won a World Series in 81 years. So when Marty McFly fast-forwarded to October 21, 2015, and a hologram told him the Cubs had just won the World Series, he was stunned.
See, the last time the Cubs won the World Series:
The New Year’s ball had dropped at Times Square for the first time.
The first roll of US postage stamps was issued.
The 46th star was added to the US flag (for Oklahoma).
Cincinnati Mayor Mark Breith stood before city council and announced that “women are not physically fit to operate automobiles.”
The song “Take Me Out to the Ball Game” was registered for copyright.
The first Mother’s Day was observed (in Philadelphia).
The first horror movie (Dr. Jekyll and Mr. Hyde) premiered in Chicago.
Henry Ford’s company built the first Model T car (cost: $825).
The first beauty contest was held (in England).
Orville Wright made the first one-hour airplane flight.
The first Gideon Bible was put in a hotel room.
And on October 14, 1908, the Chicago Cubs beat the Tigers in the fifth World Series (with the smallest crowd at a World Series to date, with just 6,210 fans). Little knowing, I’m sure, that this would not happen again for another 108 years!
The Cubs never gave up trying. And their fans never gave up believing.
Even if you’ve been writing for publication since Teddy Roosevelt was president, don’t give up. Even if no one else thinks you will ever become a successful author, don’t give up. Don’t let rejections or a busy schedule or discouragement stop you from continuing to strive for what God has called you do to. Because performing miracles is His specialty. And He will make sure you achieve whatever kind of “success” He has in mind for you and your writing. You just gotta keep believing.
November 10, 2016 @ 7:20 am
Thanks for the encouragement Kathy! It’s exactly what I needed to hear. 🙂
November 10, 2016 @ 10:45 am
So encouraging! Thanks for this. And congrats on Cubs win and waiting patiently for it.
Sara Nelson O'Brien
November 10, 2016 @ 11:39 am
This post made me smile. Thank you!
November 10, 2016 @ 11:57 am
Amen to all of the above!
November 10, 2016 @ 12:31 pm
Great word Kathy! Thanks so much!
November 10, 2016 @ 2:44 pm
Great article, Kathy! Timely for me in areas other than writing, as well. God bless!
November 10, 2016 @ 7:00 pm
Your post sounded like you were speaking directly at me. You are God’s missionary to discouraged writers.
November 11, 2016 @ 8:10 am
So true, so true. Keep on keeping on. It will happen sooner or later.
November 11, 2016 @ 12:49 pm
I LOVE THIS post!! Very applicable mindset for the “struggling” writer. I also appreciate the historical events that you shared especially about the Back to the Future movie. Who could have known, McFly was only a year off. ha
Although I’m not a life-long Cubbie fan like you, I rooted and hollered for them during this series. Memorable night. And hopefully equally exciting for me if/when my book is published. LOL
Nancy Ellen Hird
November 13, 2016 @ 9:53 am
Thank you, Kathy!!!!
November 21, 2016 @ 11:19 am
Thanks for all your encouragement, Kathy. You are a great blessing!
Sheila Seiler Lagrand
November 28, 2016 @ 10:16 am
I needed this message today. Thank you, Kathy, for this post and for all you do to encourage us.
November 28, 2016 @ 11:17 am
It makes me so happy to hear that people are encouraged by the messages God gives me and then prompts me to pass on!